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Mediation is a non-adversarial approach to resolving
disputes and reaching solutions. The mediator is not a judge so
does not render an opinion, but does facilitate communication, problem-solving
and the reaching of resolutions between elderly parents and family members.
Mediation can contribute to helping families to reach
solutions that they may not be able to reach themselves, or do not have
the expertise to achieve. Mediation can be valuable to families
because it:
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Gives the family new insights that it could not gain
by meeting on its own
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Allows all family members to
meet and prevent problems from arising by anticipating situations that
may cause disputes
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Can invite other experts - such as elder law
attorneys, care managers or
other care providers - to the meeting to educate the family and give
them a new perspective
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Allows parents to focus on their abilities rather
than their limitations
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Allows the adult children to come up with and consider
options not thought of previously
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Encourages uninvolved family members
to become involved
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Allows family members to have crucial
conversations in a safe environment so that everyone can be
heard
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Allows parents to express wishes and desires that
had previously gone unuttered
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Allows for a neutral third party to challenge
family members and make them take responsibility for their actions
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Promotes
consensus which in turn creates a much higher rate of compliance with
the plan than with any other process
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